Category: Getting to Know You
Ok ppl i have 2 questions... 1. Why take wut u hear & belive it wen u havent gotten the chance to get to kno sum1? 2. Wen should sum1 give up tryin to make new friends? Ok those are my question so please i would really appreciate wut u think...thank.
i have one question. translate question 1 for us humans?
I'll try my best to take this seriously.
1. Why take wut u hear & believe it wen u havent gotten the chance to get to kno someone?
Because people generally believe the first thing the hear, because they have no reason not to. It's up to you to change their minds.
2. Wen should someone give up trying to make new friends?
Easy... when you decide you don't want friends. As long as you want them, then don't give up.
There are my answers.
As far as the first question go, in my opinion, you shouldn't immediately believe what you hear from people because there's never a guarantee that they are telling the truth especially if the situation is pass the story. I know for a fact that sometimes the things that people say sounds reasonable and truth, but you don't get to prove it unless you hear the story from more than one person with the same incidents or you hear it directly from the person involved. Other times, the story may keep on changing. Just use your instincts. You'll know if someone is honest or not. As far as your second question, no one should never give up on making friends. Having lots of friends is fun and meeting new people is interesting and worth while, so don't limit yourself from making friends. I hope this helps.
I def agree wit u, casandra. Every1 should by now kno how da blind community work [rumors, gossip & drama]. Yet really ppl are quick 2 judge. Im at da point where i jus say "fuk it" theres only 1 person in da blind community that knos me pretty well. ***So 2 every1 who has judged me; go ahead & talk, believe wut u want but there is NO 2nd chance wit me!! As far as friends go im happy wit da ones i do have. I dont trust certain ppl for certain reasons. Im drama & bs FREE & dats how its gonna be!! So fuk a friend & im here till i die!:P*** Thanks 2 those who answer my questions..
Sounds like you've already answered your own questions.
Bob
yo yo yo yo yo! imma gitt in own diss convo dig?
now im talkin laak diss juss so ma homeys in da croud cain unda staind me!
1. Why take wut u hear & belive it wen u havent gotten the chance to get to kno sum1?
cuz girl if u talkin laak diss and u be frunnin laak u is uneducated, dem homegirls and homeboys in da croud be thinkin u ain't worth shiiit! ya dig? And cuz diss kinda shiiit gitts old yo? it gitts old so fass!
juss a su gestion, but if u tock laak u got som sence, dem folks be respectin!
2. Wen should sum1 give up tryin to make new friends?
shiiit girl! u nevva, nevva! giv up yo! iss laak any fing u do in yo laaf! iss up 2 u! juss b rememba in waat ah be sayin yo? juss sum 2 b flossin ova. dig?
Now I'll return to my regular white boy self. Thank you.
Cam
lmao Cam! i'm not gonna waste my time writing like that, but i agree with Cam. be yourself. don't try and act like someone your not, and that goes for writing like some ghetto person when your not one.
Here are my answers:
1: take what you hear and believe it if you trust the person, not until then.
2: stop trying to make new friends, now, don't actually know why you even tried, if your speaking is as bad as your typing is.
That is the truth. People should just love you for who you are. I totally agree with you Cam. Good point.
And wow ghetto?!?
agree with posts 3, 4 and 10.
First off im NOT tryin 2 be "ghetto". WTF! Lol! I jus break my words down, rather den write out da whole word. Second, out of all yall who replied ive only talked 2 one person in conference. Yall aint kno anythin bout me only wut u heard. Yet imma keep it real & tell da truth cus i dnt give a fuk! Dat der should tell yall dat i aint cool wit da fake ass ppl. As far as da friends go, STILL HAPPY & LUVIN DA FRIENDS I DO HAVE! But thanks for yalls answers & opinions.
I personally feel that you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover. If you show people how you really are, they have the choice to get to know you. As for your second question, It helps to try and talk to people first. If you are thinking about making friends on here, look at some of the profiles to get a general idea of how someone might be. If you still want to talk to that person, send them a message, or talk to them when they're on the zone. Meeting new people doesn't have to be hard if you don't make it that way. As for breaking words down, it's best not to do that all the time because it makes you sound uneducated, and I know you well enough to know that you aren't uneducated at all. It might take a few seconds longer to write a word out, but it makes you look like someone who knows how to use grammar and spelling.
Yo should try to make new friends or clients for $2.50 everytime yo whore the streets of the ATX. playa when you type with out being ghetto yo diiiiig? playa? now yo must learn too do this and yo will be fine homey oh and sit on the share.
omg joseph lmao
I agree with Sarah's post, we both know you in person and you're not showing the real you, if you want to be treated with respect, you might want to do the same
None of yall know me personally therefore yall cant stay im not being myself. Love me or hate me, i can care less. If i got something to say best believe ill say it. I dont have shit to lose so i tell the truth. But if u want me to keep it real well u gotta be real as well. Otherwise move around cause im not bout drama/games/bs. Its up to yall if yall wanna get to know me. And if u go by wut u hear then dont waste my time. Thanks again for yalls opinions...
wow Cam and Joseph, you guys are fucked up, lol.
Bella, as for your question, never ever ever believe what other people tell you about another person unless you have more than enough evidence to prove their accusations are true. Secondly, you should never stop making friends, friends are good to have, and while I agree that only a few people should be close to you, that doesn't mean you should stop getting to know them either because you just might find someone else that you can trust in.
cheers
Jess
Oh well heartbreaker, i know better than that. I dont believe what people tell me...its more of what people on here have said bout ME. As far as friends, i know, havent really found trusting friends on here. So maybe ill stick to sighted people. I have more luck with them.
I think we can all agree that people shouldn't judge someone without getting to know them, but we ought to concede that most people tend to do it anyway, often without being aware that they're doing it.
I sure they know they are doin it unless their mind isnt in the rite place. But yes ppl do judge no matter wut but i tend to have a big heart. Therefore i rather listen to wut ppl say or be a friend. I really am a nice person, ive jus met not so caring ppl within the last 3yrs. But its all good, im still here & listen learn from situations & such.